Sunday, July 11, 2010

Death by PowerPoint

I have been reminded in the past couple of weeks that expertise does not always make a great teacher...nor can everyone present well.

Take a look...

Friday, June 04, 2010

A Winkel-Sampson Family Blog

I've been thinking about doing this for a few weeks now. Actually, a few months even...

In this blog, I keep track of my stories and my thoughts. Sometimes I include Gareth since he's such a big part of my life, but really this blog is about ME. Since we learned that we are expecting, though, I've wanted to open a new blog that tells OUR story.

You can find it here.

The new blog will include all things baby and family, and it will serve as a keepsake for the Winkel-Sampson clan. Our family tree...

Lord knows we will grow 'em TALL ;)

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Punkin' Girl

Our Lyla has grown up since she first joined our family several months ago. She was only 13 weeks when we picked her up. She was a little punkin' even back then and we loved her!

Now, she is 6 1/2 months old and a perfect fit to our growing family.

She is happiest when she is outside OR greeting us at the door.
She is curious and adventurous.
She is a GREAT napper.
She is house trained... and picked it up quick.
She is our constant companion.

Sure, it was a tough adjustment. Much earlier mornings. Dog hair on clothes and furniture. She's a stink pot at times. But...

She's our Punkin' Girl and we wouldn't trade her for anything.

a little Sunday afternoon nap

Sunday, May 09, 2010

Isn't She Lovely

Today finds me thankful for my mother.

The oldest of 10 children. Wife of 37 years. Mother to Jane (34) and John (32). Breast cancer survivor. A school teacher for too many years to count... who, by the way, will be retiring in a matter of weeks!!

Here she is at our wedding last June. As beautiful as ever.


When I found out a few months ago that Gareth and I are expecting our first child this October, my mother was the person I was most excited to tell...

She was SO happy! I could almost hear her dancing over the phone ;)

And so, today also finds me looking forward to being a mother.

Yes, Gareth and I are preparing for baby (we'll find out the gender in 1 more month), and this Mother's Day is a milestone. The first holiday that we see through the eyes of family. It is an adjustment, but one that has brought us closer and made us a stronger couple.

There are likely many more adjustments on the horizon. We can't wait!

Friday, April 30, 2010

The Music City

I spent last weekend in Nashville... and I'm exhausted!!

We kicked off the weekend with a family reunion. Five of my Winkel cousins, my brother, and I ran the Country Music Rock & Roll Half Marathon together on Saturday. We survived the distance

...AND the weather!!


But the very best part was getting to visit, to catch up with one another, to know each other again. It didn't take long to remember why I loved running around with them all as a young girl...

Each one has turned into a remarkable adult.


On Sunday, I reconnected with a dear friend over coffee. I haven't seen Jessica in nearly 7 years. We spent a few short hours catching up with one another. Sharing our joys and hopes for the future.

She is just as kind and loving and beautiful as I remember.


Jessica happened to suggest a Starbucks in Brentwood, TN. Just a few blocks from the office building of one of my very favorites: Dave Ramsey. It wasn't nearly as exciting as it would have been to visit during office hours, but it still made me smile.

A big thanks to my brother who was kind enough to assist with the drive-by...


It was a wonderful weekend in the Music City.

Friday, April 09, 2010

Grandma's Girl

A few weeks ago I told one of the girls I coach, "my Grandma can hit harder than that!"

It was just a figure of speach.
I was trying to make a point.
I didn't really mean that my Grandma could hit the volleyball harder.

But, it got me thinking about my Grandma...

Growing up, I spent a lot of time with my Grandma Winkel. We lived in a nearby city, and she babysat for me a lot. As a young girl, we had our own routine. She knew little things about me... that to a 4 year-old is the entire world.

She knew that my favorite color was orange. She always cut my sandwiches in squares. She always handed me peanuts in the tin cap. We took naps together. She let me sit on her lap in the car. She knew that I couldn't live without my blanket... or my thumb. She knew that Alvin and the Chipmunks was my favorite record, and that Sesame Street was my favorite TV Show.

She knew me...

I was Grandma's girl.


As I have grown older, and reflected on this early relationship, I feel special and loved. I was not her only grandchild or even her only granddaughter. She had 9 children and many more grandchildren than that.

But she made me feel like a favorite.

My Grandma may not be able to hit a volleyball harder than the girl I was coaching. But she is tough. As I was saying good-bye to her after a visit a few years back, she gave me this piece of advice...

"Now, be good. But if you can't be good, be safe."

It made me smile then.
It still makes me smile.

I'm still Grandma's girl.

Wednesday, March 31, 2010

The Sound of Whistles

I was in Indianapolis this weekend with the girls volleyball team I have been helping coach this Spring.

We had a successful weekend!

We didn't win every game, but we did take 3rd place in the Open Division, which allowed us to qualify for Nationals in Reno, NV, this summer. All of this without our head coach, who was waiting patiently in Austin for the arrival of his baby girls.

Like I said... SUCCESS.

Growing up, I spent more weekends than I can count at these tournaments. Most of them in Omaha and Lincoln. Others: Denver, Minneapolis, Tampa, New Orleans, even Austin.

I still love the sound of whistles blowing and balls being played as I walk through a convention center. It brings back the pure joy that volleyball often brought me as a young girl.

Now, I don't consider myself a great coach.

I was a good player, but coaching is not my strong suit. Lineups, timeouts, strategy... these things do not come naturally to me. I like to teach the game, but that is not all that is required of a good coach.

I signed up this season to help pay my bills. Plain and simple. It has been a surprise to me, though, how much I have enjoyed the experience... and how much it has benefited me personally.

To reflect on my own experiences with this sport...
To remember who I was.
To be certain now of who I am.

What a gift it has turned out to be.

Friday, March 12, 2010

Thumbs, Naps, and Bike Rides with Mom

I can still fall asleep just about anywhere...

(circa 1976)

Friday, January 29, 2010

Who?

...could say no to this face?!

Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Twenty Ten

What's in store for the Sampson family in 2010?

As 2009 kicked off one year ago, I could not have predicted the joy I would find throughout the year. In January 2009, I was facing challenges with family and career that found me in tears most nights. Distress. Hopelessness. Discouragement. I felt all of these emotions on an ongoing basis as the year began.

By the time the year was over though, I could hardly recall those painful nights.

The turning point?
Well...there were two.

May 22, 2009
On this day, I walked out of the Student Services Office in the Texas Athletics Department on my last day of employment. I had survived. I don't think my smile has ever been bigger than it was on this day. A new career awaited me. One in which I was boss. I have made few decisions in life that felt better than this career move.

June 26, 2009
Just over one month later, Gareth and I married in Estes Park, Colorado. Yes, our wedding was beautiful. Yes, we had a fun time exploring the city and the historic hotel. Yes, we had a HUGE party with our friends and family. Yes, this was a special day!! More importantly though, this day reminds me of how lucky I am to have Gareth in my life. How lucky I am that he loves me. It made all the difference in how 2009 finished for me...and I expect that it will make all the difference for the rest of our lives.

What transpired in the remaining months of last year is a blur of smiles, laughs, drinks, friends...FUN! I spent time taking care of myself (something I had neglected to do for the previous 4 years) and it felt amazing!!

So, now what? As I look forward to this year individually and together with Gareth, I can't wait for these things...
  • A visiting student from Japan (he arrived this week and is settling into our guest room!)
  • An addition to our family (no, this is not an announcement!! not yet...)
  • A new little pup to run around our yard and keep us company
  • Time to spend with friends, both old and those we have yet to meet :)
  • A new career interest for Jane: Massage Therapy
  • Revisiting an old passion: Volleyball; using this part-time coaching gig to reconnect with old friends and make new ones
  • Fitness goals: Mountain Biking, Yoga, Weightlifting, CrossFit (?), Running
  • Traveling together as a family and being active
  • Momentum with Arbonne...and a promotion?!
With this list in mind, I know that I could not possibly predict all of the things that will challenge me in the coming year. Nor, will I be able to predict all that will make me smile.

I can only hope.

With beautiful friends at my side and an amazing husband, holding my hand...I think it's going to be another great year.

Tuesday, January 12, 2010